This November, the US Supreme Court will hear a case sent their way after a federal appeals court overturned a federal law that prohibited the possession of firearms by people subject to domestic violence protection orders. The decision will determine whether or not intimate partners who have been subject to abuse are protected from the continued threat of gun violence. 

It’s a good time to think back to all the times you’ve heard the question: “Why doesn’t she just leave?”

Because abusive fathers are more than twice as likely as non-abusive men to seek sole custody of their children in family custody battles, according to data from the Resource Center on Domestic Violence. 

Why doesn’t she just leave?

Because the National Network to End Domestic Violence estimates financial abuse plays a role in fully 99 percent of domestic violence cases, and 70 percent of victims are not even allowed to have a job. 

Why doesn’t she just leave? 

Because domestic violence is the third leading cause of homelessness among families in the U.S.

Why doesn’t she just leave?

Because it’s not always a “she” who is trapped. The CDC estimates that in addition to the one in four women who experience severe physical violence by an intimate partner in their lifetime, it also occurs to one in seven men. 

Why doesn’t she just leave?

Because divorce stigma remains prevalent even in 2023, especially among certain segments of the population. Sixty-four percent of self-described Conservative Republicans told Pew Research they think couples divorce too quickly.

Why doesn’t she just leave?

Because people keep asking this question instead of offering solutions. 

If you or someone you know is a victim of domestic violence, you are not alone. Sullivan County’s hotline for domestic violence services and assistance is 845-292-5700, and the national hotline (open 24/7) is 800-799-7233. Safe Homes of Orange County operates in Sullivan County at 100 North Street, Monticello, NY 12701.